Dating

You're Just 60 Seconds Away From Discovering How to Attract Women - With Confidence and Alpha Male Power... These are the secrets of how to meet women and what women want that you won't learn from a "pickup artist..." Wednesday: 12:43 AM I want you to ask yourself this: Do you ever feel like women have the "upper hand" when it comes to dating? Do you feel confused trying to figure out if a woman is into you or not? Do you ever feel like women are completely alien to you, and you have no idea where or how to relate to them? Do you ever feel nervous and paralyzed with fear when you see a woman you want to talk to, but by the time you work up your courage, she's gone...? Do you feel like you can't "escalate" things with a woman because you're afraid of making a mistake and blowing the whole thing? Do you ever feel pissed at yourself for not knowing how it works with women? And then you get more and more frustrated and angry when you get more of the results you expect? Do you find yourself having trouble talking to women and making the conversation go somewhere? Do you ever feel like you want to be totally prepared to meet women, so that you don't run into unexpected challenges and surprises? Do you ever feel like giving up on women and their crazy games, just because it's so tiring and futile? Do you ever feel insecure that you're not as tall, good-looking, or rich as other guys out there? Do you ever feel embarrassed or ashamed of your sexual desires of women? And you fear what a woman would say if she knew about what you wanted from her? Do you ever feel like you get way up "in your head" when you're around a woman you find attractive and desirable? And then your mouth turns to mush? Do you ever feel like there's some special training on understanding women that you missed out on as a kid that you should have had? And now you're playing 'catch-up,' but you feel completely lost? Do you ever find yourself panicking when a woman becomes "emotional," and you don't know what to do or how to handle it? Do you ever feel like there's a special "higher level" woman that you don't have access to? The more beautiful and elite women? Would you like to meet one special woman to sleep with, create a relationship with, or just connect on an intense level, but you're afraid she either doesn't exist, or she just wouldn't be interested in you? Well, I can tell you from years of experience that you're not alone, and you're not as lost as you might feel. When you feel like you're not as good as other guys are with women, it hits you right in the middle of who you are as a man. A few years back, I had what you might call a crisis. I'm not going to bore you with all the details, but let's just say that my dating life was really empty. I went for about a year without a girlfriend of any kind. I was meeting the occasional girl, but I wasn't able to get anything off the ground. (I think they call this "failure to launch.") I went out all the time and hung out with my other guy friends who had really attractive girlfriends, but I was the pitiful "lonely guy" of the group that would hardly ever get a phone number or date. And if I did get a date, it always ended up as "friends" at the end, because I was such a "Nice Guy." But I'd also look at my guy friends who had cool girlfriends and think, "He's not all that great looking, or all that smart." So How In The World Were These Other Guys Doing It? I asked myself that over and over again. I started to get really frustrated, and then I even got angry with women over it. I felt myselfblaming them for my situation, even though I knew they weren't the problem. It was very tempting to give up and just write women off completely. But then I had a realization... If there were things other guys were doing that could get women interested in them, I could figure out what that was, and then learn it and use it myself. I had been learning songs on guitar for years, just by getting the sheet music and copying the notes, so why would this be any different? Well, I learned a few things... Lesson 1: Attraction is Not Something You're Taught. First, it's not the same as just learning the "notes" on sheet music. I'd ask guys what they were doing to get women interested, and most of them couldn't explain it. "Just be confident," one guy said. "Act like you don't care," another one told me. Wow. That's a big help. The truth is that once you do figure out the method they're using (and I eventually did), it's simple. You just need to learn from someone that knows how to explain it right. You need someone who's been through all the same things you have. Lesson 2: Attraction Can't Be FORCED. Next, I learned that as much as I'd wanted to MAKE women interested in me, it doesn't work that way. I never talked a woman into liking me. On the other hand, when I learned the right steps to build attraction naturally, I didn't have to do all that needy and insecure stuff I used to - which never worked, anyway. Attraction isn't LOGICAL. It's emotional. But the funny thing about attraction is that it does work by predictable laws. Learn the laws, and you understand the "hidden code..." And then you'll get more and more success. And the other cool thing is that when you know how this "emotional code" works, you'll be able to repeat your successes. Over and over and over, as much as you want. Here are a couple tips I learned along the way that will help you... FAST SUCCESS TIP #1: "Tease to Please" I call this technique "Tease to Please", and it works because it short-circuits a woman's usual defense mechanisms against meeting 'strange' men. You see, every woman comes with her factory-installed defensive shields against meeting new men or letting them into her life. When a guy approaches her, for any reason, the woman assumes you're picking up on her. It's what she's gotten used to. All women are by now, and they all have a standard routine they use of being a little stand-offish to you until you can bust past this barrier. Instead of complimenting a woman when you first meet her, take the opportunity to gently tease her. Don't make it cruel, but tease like you would on the playground as a kid: "You're not bad looking ... you don't have cooties, do you? I don't want to catch anything from you." By using the Dating Dynamics methods, you will flip her Trust switch in her head. You see, she starts out needing to find a reason to be interested and trust YOU - or she quickly categorizes you as a friend. Translation: “Friend” = non-lover, a man she won’t sleep with.  Don't go there. If you just start talking to her neutrally, she's wondering, "Is he safe? Is he normal?" For all she knows, you're just another dweeb looking to bore her with old Playboy party jokes. Now, by teasing her first, all of a sudden she feels (from your words and actions) that you might be more challenging. You're different - i.e., interesting to her. Maybe you’re not just another guy out there looking to get laid tonight. Just find one thing about her that you can tease her about as an introduction. Don't make it cruel, but make it clear that you're not intimidated by her beauty. Make it playful and fun. If you're reading her body language well enough, you'll be able to take this as far as you want. IMPORTANT NOTE: Most guys will be afraid of making a woman mad, and will fear using this tactic, even though it makes complete sense to women and it will work like crazy on them. If you play it her way, you're going to have to spend weeks and weeks, dates and more dates,money and more money, on a woman just to get her to open up and believe you're a good guy. MAYBE. The best way is to learn how to shortcut past this and get women attracted right away. No more wasting time or energy on women that aren't what you want. Do you ever feel like attraction between you and a woman is like some kind of magic 'trick'...? And that it's something cool that you can see other guys do, but you'll never really "get it"? Some guys out there will tell you that you need to get your "inner game" of confidence and self-esteem all taken care of before you can meet women and get more dates. This is popular advice from people who don't understand how to train guys properly. The most important thing for you to do is to get what I call "Fast Success." I'm not talking about the kind that you were warned about by your Jedi grandfather, who told you to "beware of the easy path." Fast Success is getting you results as quickly as possible so you don't quit too soon! So your first step is to learn the basic skills so you can get those quick victories and teach your "unconscious mind" that you can do this. Let me give you an example of something quick and easy that you can use the next time you're out talking to a woman... FAST SUCCESS TIP #2: "Conversation Jump-Start" Have you ever been talking to a woman for a few minutes, and as the energy of the conversation starts to dip a little (right about where you are running out of things to say) she just looks back to her friends and turns her back to you? I call this the "back turn," and it's one of those experiences guys hate more than anything. You get that sick feeling of not just being ignored, but de-valued as well. It feels like a punch in the stomach. Even though she didn't actually do it or say it out loud, you feel like she just laughed and called you a loser. Let me give you the best strategy you can use when you sense that this situation is coming up and you might lose her... Just look at the girl and ask her to tell you how everyone in her group knows each other. You can say this: "Hey, before you run out of cool things to talk about, tell me... How do you all know each other?" If you listen closely, what she says will give you at least ten new subjects that you can then talk with her and her friends about - their jobs, their history, all the juicy stuff you can use for a good conversation. BOOM. Problem solved. Plus, by getting her friends back in on the conversation, you avoid that "creepy guy hitting on their friend" situation. You may know this one, too, where you're talking with a woman, and suddenly one of her friends drags her away to go talk with some other "friend." What really happened there was that the girl you were talking to used her "chick code" (those looks women share that seem telepathic) to say, "I need to find a new conversation..." These are just some of the techniques and strategies you will learn in my dating manual, The Dating Black Book. This is the Dating Advice for Men You Wish You'd Had Back In High School - Priceless Wisdom You Wish Your Dad Had Told You... IF He'd Only Known It. It's a collection of dating secrets, principles, and techniques from years of observation and practice, collected writings from dating and relationships, sales, psychology, philosophy, practical seduction techniques, and plain old common sense dating advice for men on how to attract women into your life. This is a complete course in how to understand women and relationships - the world of dating from the inside out. It could take you over 5 years or more (that's about what it took me to figure this stuff out, with no guidance) and thousands of dollars of your hard-earned money to uncover this unique knowledge on your own. OR you could hire one of my trained consultants at $225 per hourover 10 hours to scratch the surface of what I've put in this ebook.  The Dating Black Book is The Cement That Will Lock In Your 'Inner Game,' 'Outer Game,' and Your Motivation... You will learn... How to Avoid the top dating mistakes men men make when they meet women... How to use your "Power Points" - How to seduce a woman with your innate qualities and strengths Learn the Secret Attitudes behind the Myths of the Nice Guy, the Jerk, the Natural... Find out which one you are, and how to get to be the type of guy that women want... Why you must avoid the "Poison Women" - Who they are and why you never want to get caught in their traps... The Program Woman - Who she is, and how you can spot her and handle her before you're forced to "settle"... Understand what true "compatibility" is, and how to really attract women that are like you - not the women that annoy you or make you wish you were home watching "The Godfather" for the 40th time... The Principle of Truth, and how it will increase your success with women instantly when you recognize where you've been hiding in denial... The Dating Continuum explained - the architecture of relationships, from start to finish... Where to meet women - the kind YOU are interested in... How to pickup women the right way - without the memorized routines and games... Do you ever run out of things to say in conversations? I'll show you the right things to say to women (with examples of what I say at every point during your dating) - No more stupid pickup lines that don't work... How to maintain your posture - and command respect from every woman (and man) that you meet... Leverage the Attitude Adjusters - How to keep your confidence with women on track, and avoid the inner game traps that destroy a man's confidence and self-esteeem... How to handle conflict and win arguments with women so that you appear strong and cool... What's really happening beneath the surface when a woman tests you or plays her games... How to talk to women, without having to memorize scripts or hokey seduction patterns... and leave her feeling as if you're the only man around that can give her what she really wants... The Psychology of Dating: What women want from men - in words, action, and attitude... What women really mean when they say "Are you a player?" or "Are you seeing anyone else?" - and how to answer her questions so that you not only increase her attraction to you, she will sense your confidence and Alpha Power... Female tests and traps, and specifically how to handle them... The Secrets of Dating Persuasion - Find out what a woman is looking for in your body language, your tone of voice, and words to decide whether you will be her next boyfriend - or just another friend... Kinesthetics - exactly where, when, and how you should touch a woman to get her aching with desire, and understand at a primitive level that you are a dominant and masculine presence... Sure-fire ways to approach women that you can use to walk up and start a conversation with a woman in just minutes - and walk away with her phone number every time. AND you'll know that she will answer your call when you get around to it... Three essential things you must NEVER do when you walk up and talk to a woman... My simple 2-step training method to get you from being afraid to approach women, to talking with any attractive woman that you see... 6 Methods to have a woman feeling a powerful magnetic attraction for you on your first date that will establish you as unique in her mind... How to handle all the basics of outer game with your appearance, grooming, your car, your home - everything a woman will see - and how she will interpret it... 6 Ways you can confuse a woman into feeling inescapable attraction for you, and how this one psychological principle is the most powerful ingredient of attraction in your arsenal... Ever wonder what the really "Alpha" guys out there have? Starting on page 83, I analyze and break down the key elements of what women look for in "masculine" men... The 5 Reasons you must do exactly the opposite of what most men do when they find a woman they really want - and how this can kill your game with women completely if you don't know the rules... The most important emotion a woman can experience with you, and the 3 parts of it... How the "Cycle of Self-Confidence" works, and how you can stop letting women rattle your cage by learning the "suit of armor" principle... The 3 Myths that you must understand about what women think of "Jerks," "Nice Guys," and "Destiny..." 15 Attraction Killing behaviors - chances are you're doing one or more of these without even knowing it... The 3 Primary Desire Factors - what they are, how they work, and the one that can destroy a relationship quicker than anything else... The Big Trap and the Big Myth of Game Playing - Two more deadly pitfalls to avoid when dating women - and how guys "learn" their anger toward women accidentally... Why women put up defensive shields to you, and how you can easily talk past them and create REAL connections... 13 simple words that will get you a phone number every time... On page 131, I explain how to get rid of your fear of rejection, and the one word that impacts your self-image more than anything else... 7 Ways to create anticipation and desire in a woman - and these are simply things you should NOT do, and take no effort or energy on your part... Why do women tell you, "Let's just be friends"? The two big mistakes men make that lead to this - and how to avoid it for good... The ABB rule of how to keep a woman's interest level in you as high as possible for as long as possible... Beware the "Date Questionnaire" mode, where a woman steers you with questions - and before you know it, you've lost control. I'll point out the questions you should never ask, or answer... Male Panic Syndrome - How to recognize the deadly downward spiral that turns nice guys into total wimps for women - with a word for word example... Learn the 5 Steps in my Relationship Maintenance program - Not every guy wants to date around forever, so when you're done having fun, you'll know how to keep the good women that you date... Why you never need to be jealous of other guys hitting on your girl ever again - in fact, you will WANT them to do this when you know why... The signals to know when to call it quits with a woman, and how to handle it... The 2 Ultimate Tools of control in relationships - and how to use them to create better and more authentic connections with women... The two primary types of women to watch for, and which kind you must avoid at all costs... My super calming tactic I discovered that defuses emotional situations with women and keeps you from losing your cool... How YOU can turn the tables and test women - instead of the other way around... How to handle the questions you can't handle from women - What to say, and the basic principle of how to manage your natural (and dangerous) reflexes with women... How to handle it when you feel under emotional "attack" from a woman so that you don't give up your power, and you make her feel even MORE attraction... My most important rule for all men: The Contention Principle - what it is, and why you must use it to avoid getting stuck in dead-end relationships with women that drain you dry... The top 9 ways you can spot your own attitude problems and resolve them before you find yourself wussing out with a woman - or worse... The Comfort Factor & Novelty Syndrome - two more dangerous mental traps you must avoid - and how to recognize them when they happen - AND how they make you settle for a woman that is less than what you could have... The Truth About Giving A Woman Mind-Blowing Sex - what you're doing wrong, and how to please her on a whole new level, so that she'll not only come back for more, her friends will even smile knowingly at you... And That's Just the Beginning... Are You Serious About Wanting To Attract Women and Get More Dates? Here's How To Meet Women and Attract Them -  Guaranteed... Or Your Money Back. I slaved for years to collect all this together, reading books, distilling my newsletters and core techniques, trying everything in the field, to bring you these tips, tactics, and strategies in a professional quality format. I want to change your dating LIFE completely to give you the kind of understanding and confidence that most men will never achieve with women. Less than 5% of all men will ever get really good with women. I've observed and trainedthousands of men in this art, and I can tell you for a fact that most guys talk a good game, but when it comes to jumping in the driver's seat and getting REAL skills, most men wind up settling for a relationship that doesn't fulfill them. I don't want this to happen to you. Here's a little test you can perform on any of your single guy friends. The next time you see an attractive woman in a bar, nudge him and tell him to go talk to her. I bet that 19 out of 20 guys will say something like this:"Nah, she's not my type..."or"I'm not on my game tonight. You go ahead..." Or any number of lame excuses. Hey, I used to do the same thing. Don't let your dating life create itself by DEFAULT - meaning that you take the first and most convenient woman you meet.Don't let it be a matter of LUCK. Luck is Simply Where Preparedness Meets Opportunity. It's Time To Make Your Own Luck. Don't be fooled into thinking that developing the ability to talk to women and get more dates is something that is reserved for a special class of guys who "have it" because they have some special gene. EVERY man can improve his skills with women. I know because I did it. And now I want to share that opportunity with you. This program rocks and I stand by it with my name and reputation. Do you want a step-by-step manual to handle all your dating questions, from when you see her to when you're in the bedroom with her? Are you aware of the top ten dating mistakes and how to avoid them? Do you want to understand the traits you're really looking for in a woman? As well as the traits she really wants from you? Or would you like to know what behaviors and body language enhance and which lower or even destroy attraction from a woman? Do you want a Maintenance Program to keep a good woman once you win her? Would you like to learn how to bypass using those ridiculous and tired pickup lines, and learn a technique that will work in almost 100% of the situations you find yourself in? Do you want to learn how the dynamic changes as a dating relationship progresses? Would you like to know the secrets of persuasion that salesmen and the media use on you all the time? And how you can use these tactics to draw in women without manipulation or games?  "The Dating Black Book is Your Dating Guide to Reveal These Secrets to You..." This manual is also not a skimpy booklet, or a padded pamphlet with huge borders, huge spacing, and a large font to make you feel like you've got more than you really have. This is over 250 pages of techniques, tactics and strategies, complete with diagrams, charts, and dialogues. Real body language discussion, including how to use eye contact, etc. Everything you could need to learn 5+ years of my experience in just a few hours. You can download The Dating Black Book and the bonus ebooks and be reading them in just a few minutes, and start learning the dating secrets that the "naturals" have been using for years.